If there is a God, and he makes your MacBook and mobile phone collapse almost simultaneously, what is he trying to tell you? To investigate this thoroughly has been my mission for the past few days. I admit it, I did panick. After all, when all you have left is a door bell, the world doesn’t exactly run you down. I felt rediculously lonely at first. Then, bit by bit, I mapped my options and dried my spoiled princess tears. These past few days have been my most productive for as long as I can remember.
What I have learnt so far from this social draught, is that no matter what, I am always alone – we all are. By accepting that, I was able to see my steering wheel clearly for the first time in ages. This is my vehicle in life. This is my path. This is my exact location. Where am I heading? Where do I really want to go? When I had more or less pinned down my exact position, I was extatic as to navigate further from there. It always strikes me how exciting life can be when it is seemingly at it’s most quiet.
I challenge you to spend 30 minutes on a briefing with yourself. Turn of your phone. Hell, turn of everything. Ask yourself these questions:
- What are my talents?
- What are my current projects?
- What are my dreams?
- How can I approach even my seemingly most far fetched dreams today?
- How can I steer in a direction that is more in tune with who I really am, and that makes me feel excited about my future, today?

I know you’ve got something that nobody else has got, something that will sweep the world off their feet. Go and get them!
Remember; solitude is the best party you will ever attend.
Lots of rainy love,
M
xxx